Sunday, July 15, 2007

Waiting for our first appointment



Jared and I are writing this blog for many reasons. One is that there is and will be a lot of information and steps in our journey, and writing them helps me relieve some of my stress and anxiety. Another reason is that this is a big step in our journey to have baby hansley. We want all of our family and friends to be involved and send us some thoughts and prayers while we do this. We figured that if we made this blog, we could keep all of you updated in the process. We hope that you will continue to read and see how everything works out.
We began seeing a specialist in April. Her name is Valerie Ratts and she is part of Washington University Medicine and she is located at Barnes Jewish Hospital. She is wonderful and we really love her. She was my doctor when I had surgery at the age of 18 for endometriosis. She is a very aggressive doctor and we support all of her decisions. After many attempts to try other procedures to help us, Dr. Ratts has decided that IVF is the best way for us to get pregnant. Our first appointment will be on August 2nd. She will be consulting with us and giving us our timeline for the procedure. We also have to order our medicines that day. Lots of shots to give, so Jared is now going to become a Dr. also. HA HA. Who would have ever thought that I would be letting him give me a shot. Once we have that meeting we can begin to share more with everyone.
We are very excited, scared, nervous, emotional, and just a little overwhelmed right now. We hope that you will follow us through this journey. We would love to hear your comments, so we have attached a place for you to post them. Please keep us in your thoughts and prayers and we will keep you updated!!!!






8 comments:

Anonymous said...

Hey guys,
I like the blog! What a good idea. I know it seems so far away but your little blessing will arrive soon. Good luck. If you need anything at all, even just moral support, give me a call.
Ryan

Anonymous said...

Hello,

Well this is an awesome idea..I am so excited for you guys and now I can be in the loop of knowing whats going on..First off I would like to say that despite the ups and downs of our past( this is to Nicki) I love you so very much and my prayer is for you to be able to conceive a child of your own. I know you will be a wonderful mom and I am here for you no matter what! I wish the best for you both. Erika

Tera said...

Nicki & Jared,
Happy Belated Anniversary!!! We love you guys!!! Courtney says we have to say a lot of prayers and it will happen. You both will be the best parents.
Love,
Caroline, Courtney, Carlianne and Tera

Anonymous said...

My little Nicky, what a great idea, to share your experience! Technology is wonderful and through God's hands you and my cutie pie Jared will be blessed.


Love Carla (Jared's idol)

Anonymous said...

Hi! I found your blog through another blog. Being through ivf 3 times (starting #4) I have too much experience if you ever want to ask a question my email is Kellypeterson29@hotmail.com Its a roller coaster and the shots can be a bit much at times but it goes quickly once you start. Wishing you all the best!

Aunt Susan said...

Nikki and Jared, I guess my sister forgot to tell me about this. Well I think it is great and you two will be great parents. You will be in our prayers. Remember God will not give you more than you can take. Things will work out for the two of you the way they should. Love Aunt Susan

Anonymous said...

Hi Nicki and Jared!

Brad and I are thinking of you guys and keeping you in our prayers. You guys have TONS of supporters.

You have such positive attitudes about everything and it sounds like an excellent doctor who knows what she is doing and genuinly cares about her patients.

We are so glad you have decided to keep us ALL in the loop with the blog! It is such a fantastic idea! We have bookmarked the site and will be checking it often!

We Love You!

Love,
Jennifer and Brad

Anonymous said...

Nicki, well its mom again, you know i do not do this very well, but i can't wait for the time when they do the process with your eggs and i will be there, both me and dad and hopefully danielle. I know your going through alot, and we all will be here for you guys, but just keep the faith. We love you guys alot love mom and dad